This is Muhammad School (1)
What were the Teachings of the Prophet Muhammad?
What is the wisdom of His words?
Herein, the quoted Prophetic Hadiths (Muhammad's words) are randomly chosen.
1. Prophet Muhammad defines who is not a perfect Muslim
A man asked the Prophet Muhammad, who is the perfect Muslim
Prophet Muhammad said:
"He is not a perfect Muslim, who eats till he is full and leaves his neighbors hungry."
2. Prophet Muhammad commands to honor the senior
Prophet Muhammad said:
"He is not of us who is not affectionate to the little ones, and does not respect the old; and he is not of us, who does not order which is lawful, and prohibits that which is unlawful." Also, He said: "Verily, it is one of the respects to Allah to honor an old man."
3. Muhammad asks: what is better than charity and fasting and prayer?
Prophet Muhammad said:
"Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind."
4. Muhammad says: your parents is your key to paradise
Prophet Muhammad said: "He, who wishes to enter paradise at the best gate, must please his father and mother."
5. Muhammad says: you will not complete your faith till you love one another
Prophet Muhammad said:
"You will not enter paradise until you have faith; and you will not complete your faith till you love one another." Also, He said: "No man is a true believer unless he desires for his brother that, what he desires for himself."
6. Muhammad gives the definition of the best of alms
Prophet Muhammad said: "The best of alms is that, which the right hand gives and the left hand knows not of."
7. Muhammad's teaching when three persons are together
Prophet Muhammad says: "When three persons are together, two of them must no whisper to each other, without letting the third hear; because it would hurt him."
8. In addition, the following are also some interesting teachings of the Prophet Muhammad; He said:
• "Allah is one and likes Unity."
• "Strive always to excel in virtue and truth."
• "All Muslims are like a foundation, each strengthening the other; in such a way they do support each other."
• "I am leaving two things among you, and if you cling to them firmly you will never go astray; one is the Book of Allah (the Quran) and the other is my way of life." As a matter of fact, the way of life of the Prophet Muhammad was unique.
in Friendship
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Dating Tips - Learn How To Convince Your Ex Boyfriend To Get Back Together
Whatever may happen next in your life, you will always sense that it was a tragedy that you never made a complete effort to get back together. If you are reading this, you are obviously looking to convince your ex boyfriend to get back together. But the question you should be asking yourself is why? Do you really want this person back or are you just feeling lonely and frightened of being single. Do you want to learn how to convince your ex boyfriend to get back together?
Being single can be great fun but it is a different lifestyle from that of a couple. You don't have to please anybody else which can be liberating but being on your own again can also be scary. You may feel that you will never meet Mr Right and that time is passing you by.
But never get back with your ex boyfriend just because you are scared of being on your own. He may be your ex but the next guy on the block may be the ONE. If you split for silly reasons such as game playing or a temper tantrum and you want this guy back then it is best to try and apologize for your behavior.
If he decided to break up with you, he may have got cold feet. Guys don't always want to admit that they prefer spending time with one lady rather than playing the field. Examine your relationship and see if this could be the case with your guy.
Signs to look out for include the way he treated you. If he usually behaved like a gentleman then there is a good chance he is regretting the break up. Another good sign is if he introduced you to his family, in particular his mother. Men don't tend to bring home their girlfriends unless they are pretty serious about her and sees a future together
So when trying to convince your ex boyfriend to come home, you need to try to see the relationship from your partners point of view. Being able to see each other's perspective gives you a better chance of resolving your differences. You will both need the freedom to express your feelings even if these are potentially hurtful for the other person to hear.
So long as both parties don't use this opportunity as a means of hurting each other, you stand a good chance of working through the issues. Knowing how to criticize and accept criticism is a good starting point for any relationship.
You both need to be assertive and decide what it is that you want out of this relationship. Knowing where you stand means that you can both move forward with your lives even if it means that you do split up. Hopefully you will decide that you want to be together and are more committed to resolving your differences.
If you do feel angry then let it show. Just be sure that when you show your anger you don't reject your partner at the same time. You are trying to help him realize that you belong together and not apart.
Following these tips may help to convince your ex-boyfriend to get back together. Good luck.
Being single can be great fun but it is a different lifestyle from that of a couple. You don't have to please anybody else which can be liberating but being on your own again can also be scary. You may feel that you will never meet Mr Right and that time is passing you by.
But never get back with your ex boyfriend just because you are scared of being on your own. He may be your ex but the next guy on the block may be the ONE. If you split for silly reasons such as game playing or a temper tantrum and you want this guy back then it is best to try and apologize for your behavior.
If he decided to break up with you, he may have got cold feet. Guys don't always want to admit that they prefer spending time with one lady rather than playing the field. Examine your relationship and see if this could be the case with your guy.
Signs to look out for include the way he treated you. If he usually behaved like a gentleman then there is a good chance he is regretting the break up. Another good sign is if he introduced you to his family, in particular his mother. Men don't tend to bring home their girlfriends unless they are pretty serious about her and sees a future together
So when trying to convince your ex boyfriend to come home, you need to try to see the relationship from your partners point of view. Being able to see each other's perspective gives you a better chance of resolving your differences. You will both need the freedom to express your feelings even if these are potentially hurtful for the other person to hear.
So long as both parties don't use this opportunity as a means of hurting each other, you stand a good chance of working through the issues. Knowing how to criticize and accept criticism is a good starting point for any relationship.
You both need to be assertive and decide what it is that you want out of this relationship. Knowing where you stand means that you can both move forward with your lives even if it means that you do split up. Hopefully you will decide that you want to be together and are more committed to resolving your differences.
If you do feel angry then let it show. Just be sure that when you show your anger you don't reject your partner at the same time. You are trying to help him realize that you belong together and not apart.
Following these tips may help to convince your ex-boyfriend to get back together. Good luck.
Hypothyroidism: Causes And Effects
Hypothyroidism is a malfunction of the thyroid gland in which the gland stops producing the normal amount of hormones. It is also known as underactive thyroid. The thyroid is a very important part of the machine that is our body and if it is not producing enough hormones the body is greatly affected. The symptoms can vary from person to person and there are a few different things that may be the cause of this disorder.
First of all, how do you know you have hypothyroidism? It's definitely tricky sometimes to connect a whole bunch of symptoms that could be individually be easily shrugged off. When it comes to having an underactive thyroid it'll usually come down to a combination of a few of these symptoms and also the consistency of them to consider. Regardless, if you have any medical concerns it is always best to consult a doctor even if it's just for your peace of mind.
Quite often one of the main symptoms of an underactive thyroid is a complete lack of energy. The other obvious sign is an enlarged gland or lump where your thyroid gland is situated. If you are getting a good amount of sleep and really struggling with exhaustion and tired muscles this could be an indicator. Also dry skin and hair or brittle nails and hair can be present. Another symptom is memory loss, lack of concentration and focus. Other most common symptoms are weight gain, low libido and even infertility to name a few.
If you are concerned that you are suffering from some of these symptoms and would like to be checked a simple visit to your local doctor should provide you with the answers you're looking for. Once you've had a chat with your doctor about your symptoms and history, he'll perform a physical examination and proceed to take some blood from you. This blood will be tested to see if you have hypothyroidism.
If you don't then you can eliminate this possibility and continue the search to find out what's causing your symptoms. If the blood test comes back and you do have an underactive thyroid, then your doctor has a few options for treatment. Depending on the cause he may place you on some sort of hormone replacements to counter for the lack of thyroid hormones being released. He may also arrange for you to speak with a health professional who specialises in diet and exercise to specifically improve hypothyroidism.
A certain amount of diet and exercise can help with the main issue of underactive thyroid. Certain alterations can also relieve symptoms. One of the main causes of this disorder is a lack of iodine in the diet. This is found in various products such as bread and seafood. Exercise can help with transforming one hormone into another one that has a stronger and more important function. This should happen naturally on it's own but does not so much when suffering from an underactive thyroid.
First of all, how do you know you have hypothyroidism? It's definitely tricky sometimes to connect a whole bunch of symptoms that could be individually be easily shrugged off. When it comes to having an underactive thyroid it'll usually come down to a combination of a few of these symptoms and also the consistency of them to consider. Regardless, if you have any medical concerns it is always best to consult a doctor even if it's just for your peace of mind.
Quite often one of the main symptoms of an underactive thyroid is a complete lack of energy. The other obvious sign is an enlarged gland or lump where your thyroid gland is situated. If you are getting a good amount of sleep and really struggling with exhaustion and tired muscles this could be an indicator. Also dry skin and hair or brittle nails and hair can be present. Another symptom is memory loss, lack of concentration and focus. Other most common symptoms are weight gain, low libido and even infertility to name a few.
If you are concerned that you are suffering from some of these symptoms and would like to be checked a simple visit to your local doctor should provide you with the answers you're looking for. Once you've had a chat with your doctor about your symptoms and history, he'll perform a physical examination and proceed to take some blood from you. This blood will be tested to see if you have hypothyroidism.
If you don't then you can eliminate this possibility and continue the search to find out what's causing your symptoms. If the blood test comes back and you do have an underactive thyroid, then your doctor has a few options for treatment. Depending on the cause he may place you on some sort of hormone replacements to counter for the lack of thyroid hormones being released. He may also arrange for you to speak with a health professional who specialises in diet and exercise to specifically improve hypothyroidism.
A certain amount of diet and exercise can help with the main issue of underactive thyroid. Certain alterations can also relieve symptoms. One of the main causes of this disorder is a lack of iodine in the diet. This is found in various products such as bread and seafood. Exercise can help with transforming one hormone into another one that has a stronger and more important function. This should happen naturally on it's own but does not so much when suffering from an underactive thyroid.
Gardening-Garden Safety And The Importance Of Outdoor Lighting
As the summer approaches and people begin to start dining outside and sitting out in the evenings it is time to start considering safety in your garden and the importance of adequate Outdoor Lighting.
Walkways should be well lit and solar path lights are the perfect choice, they use solar energy to charge them during daylight hours and they automatically turn on when the light goes down. This saves you money and time because you don't have to think about turning them on each time. Outdoor lighting should be should be used to clearly mark ponds or other water features that could be very dangerous in the night.
Solar lights have come a fair way since just the static path light, they now include fairy lights which charge during the day, and you then have the option between continuous light and flickering lights to create a mystical feel. Not only do these lights look lovely in the garden they save you money on your energy bill, so you can be green fingered in your garden in more ways than one. This sort of fairy lights is also available in a range of colours making them the ideal outdoor party lights.
Lights and Trees
Tea lights are always a popular option for dressing the garden when having a party outdoors, they create a magical atmosphere when suspended in branches but they can be dangerous if placed too close to dry branches. The other concern with tea lights is that over enthusiastic party goers will start burning bits of paper and other items which can get out of hand and be incredibly dangerous.
This does not mean that you have to steer clear of tea lights because you can invest in some LED tea lights that are battery powered but produce the same gentle glow that a candle would produce. They are of a similar size and shape and they come with a welcoming warm glow or multicoloured for a seriously funky lighting effect.
With so many new options for outdoor lighting there is no excuse for not being safe in the garden this summer.
Walkways should be well lit and solar path lights are the perfect choice, they use solar energy to charge them during daylight hours and they automatically turn on when the light goes down. This saves you money and time because you don't have to think about turning them on each time. Outdoor lighting should be should be used to clearly mark ponds or other water features that could be very dangerous in the night.
Solar lights have come a fair way since just the static path light, they now include fairy lights which charge during the day, and you then have the option between continuous light and flickering lights to create a mystical feel. Not only do these lights look lovely in the garden they save you money on your energy bill, so you can be green fingered in your garden in more ways than one. This sort of fairy lights is also available in a range of colours making them the ideal outdoor party lights.
Lights and Trees
Tea lights are always a popular option for dressing the garden when having a party outdoors, they create a magical atmosphere when suspended in branches but they can be dangerous if placed too close to dry branches. The other concern with tea lights is that over enthusiastic party goers will start burning bits of paper and other items which can get out of hand and be incredibly dangerous.
This does not mean that you have to steer clear of tea lights because you can invest in some LED tea lights that are battery powered but produce the same gentle glow that a candle would produce. They are of a similar size and shape and they come with a welcoming warm glow or multicoloured for a seriously funky lighting effect.
With so many new options for outdoor lighting there is no excuse for not being safe in the garden this summer.
Are Residential Treatment Programs Successful?
In most cases they most certainly do succeed. There will always be some young people, for whatever reason or reasons, who do not find a way out of their problems. But the vast majority of residents go home after their residential treatment center stay as a new and far better person.
There are benefits from a successful stay in a center apart from the young troubled teen who manages to turn their life around. The family of the teen can discover a new way of life once the troubled teen moves out of home. The times leading up to the choice of a residential treatment center can be racked with arguments, silences and even violence or threats of violence. Life changes dramatically once the troubled teen leaves home.
And that's where the job of repairing a life begins on two fronts. It's most important that the family members back at home are given training on how they should behave once the family is back together again. It's crazy to have the troubled teen enjoy a successful time in the treatment center only to return home and have the therapists' good work unravel. The family members need to take instruction in how to handle the 'new' arrival when the time in residence is over. There is a right way to handle the recovered teen and to take advantage of his or her 'new' personality and every family member must play their part.
The major aim of the programs on offer in the residential treatment centers is created after a lot of thought and planning. The programs aim to help the troubled residents undergo a serious and life changing experience. There is nothing left to chance. The one on one therapy sessions are obviously tailor made to tackle the specific problem or problems troubling each resident. The group therapy sessions give the residents the chance to see they are not alone. They can learn as much from hearing the trials of their fellow residents as they can from their personal sessions. And the programs give each resident a chance to make new friends. Many do just that and the friendships often continue once the once troubled teens return home.
Most programs are made up of three segments - therapy, academic and social. To make sure the overall program has a profound effect on each resident and that the benefits gained continue after the residential stay, all three aspects need to be included. Obviously the therapy has to be appropriate and intensive but the academic studies and social interaction are equally as important. The residents have their problems resolved through therapy, they maintain their schooling through a well planned and delivered academic program and they gain self confidence through the ongoing social activities in the center.
The atmosphere in a residential treatment center is one of a family, a community and the relaxed approach by members of staff and their constant attention to the needs of the residents gives support to the programs presented throughout the center. The programs do work and work well.
There are benefits from a successful stay in a center apart from the young troubled teen who manages to turn their life around. The family of the teen can discover a new way of life once the troubled teen moves out of home. The times leading up to the choice of a residential treatment center can be racked with arguments, silences and even violence or threats of violence. Life changes dramatically once the troubled teen leaves home.
And that's where the job of repairing a life begins on two fronts. It's most important that the family members back at home are given training on how they should behave once the family is back together again. It's crazy to have the troubled teen enjoy a successful time in the treatment center only to return home and have the therapists' good work unravel. The family members need to take instruction in how to handle the 'new' arrival when the time in residence is over. There is a right way to handle the recovered teen and to take advantage of his or her 'new' personality and every family member must play their part.
The major aim of the programs on offer in the residential treatment centers is created after a lot of thought and planning. The programs aim to help the troubled residents undergo a serious and life changing experience. There is nothing left to chance. The one on one therapy sessions are obviously tailor made to tackle the specific problem or problems troubling each resident. The group therapy sessions give the residents the chance to see they are not alone. They can learn as much from hearing the trials of their fellow residents as they can from their personal sessions. And the programs give each resident a chance to make new friends. Many do just that and the friendships often continue once the once troubled teens return home.
Most programs are made up of three segments - therapy, academic and social. To make sure the overall program has a profound effect on each resident and that the benefits gained continue after the residential stay, all three aspects need to be included. Obviously the therapy has to be appropriate and intensive but the academic studies and social interaction are equally as important. The residents have their problems resolved through therapy, they maintain their schooling through a well planned and delivered academic program and they gain self confidence through the ongoing social activities in the center.
The atmosphere in a residential treatment center is one of a family, a community and the relaxed approach by members of staff and their constant attention to the needs of the residents gives support to the programs presented throughout the center. The programs do work and work well.
Health Tips - Normal Sounds And Noises Can Affect Autistic Children
The normal sounds and noises are sometimes better to be silent for some children with autism, because of their sensitivity. But is silence golden? There are many signs for autism. A few of them are, poor eye contact, tantrums, short attention span, lining up items in a certain row and sounds and noises that are normal but painful to some autistic children.
I want to talk to you about the normal sounds and noises that are painful to the ears of many autistic individuals, because of an over sensitivity and sensory that some children have.
For example, large crowds of people talking, malls, airplanes, streets in the city filled with cars and people, riding an elevator, that is full of people talking, concerts, music, holidays with families, are just a few of them.
Many children who have an extreme intense sensitivity to normal sounds or noises, will try to calm themselves by either wringing their hands, shaking their hands and some will rock back and forth. Others will put their hands on their ears, to protect them from the noises.
It is a challenge for parent(s), caregiver(s), to know when these normal sounds or noises will affect the individual. Every person with autism is different and there is no concrete or sure way to predict the behavior of the child with autism.
Try to learn what your child likes or dislikes and how he or she responds to new areas that are being introduced, then tabulate them and be prepared if the behavior to normal sounds or noises are too much for your child to handle, try to keep your child safe from it. Do not push or force your child to like normal sounds or noises, by doing that, it will only cause an outbreak in another behavior area that will have to be dealt with.
Some autistic individuals have an over sensitivity to the sounds that seem to appear, to be functional and normal to other people.
For the child or an adult, with autism, they do not understand why they are so sensitive to normal sounds and noises and they probably are trying to understand or trying to make sense of it themselves. For you, to understand why there is a sensitivity to this kind of behavior, many experts agree that these behaviors might be a way that the child is trying to communicate, relate to or try to figure out what is going on.
Parent(s), caregiver(s), must realize that the intense sensitivity to sound that appears to be normal noises and sounds, is common symptom of autism
I want to talk to you about the normal sounds and noises that are painful to the ears of many autistic individuals, because of an over sensitivity and sensory that some children have.
For example, large crowds of people talking, malls, airplanes, streets in the city filled with cars and people, riding an elevator, that is full of people talking, concerts, music, holidays with families, are just a few of them.
Many children who have an extreme intense sensitivity to normal sounds or noises, will try to calm themselves by either wringing their hands, shaking their hands and some will rock back and forth. Others will put their hands on their ears, to protect them from the noises.
It is a challenge for parent(s), caregiver(s), to know when these normal sounds or noises will affect the individual. Every person with autism is different and there is no concrete or sure way to predict the behavior of the child with autism.
Try to learn what your child likes or dislikes and how he or she responds to new areas that are being introduced, then tabulate them and be prepared if the behavior to normal sounds or noises are too much for your child to handle, try to keep your child safe from it. Do not push or force your child to like normal sounds or noises, by doing that, it will only cause an outbreak in another behavior area that will have to be dealt with.
Some autistic individuals have an over sensitivity to the sounds that seem to appear, to be functional and normal to other people.
For the child or an adult, with autism, they do not understand why they are so sensitive to normal sounds and noises and they probably are trying to understand or trying to make sense of it themselves. For you, to understand why there is a sensitivity to this kind of behavior, many experts agree that these behaviors might be a way that the child is trying to communicate, relate to or try to figure out what is going on.
Parent(s), caregiver(s), must realize that the intense sensitivity to sound that appears to be normal noises and sounds, is common symptom of autism
Health Tips - Yoga For Better Living
Disease is the disappearance of natural ease.
Yoga philosophy aims at the prevention of the loss of our ease and peace. Most of the modern problems are due to wrong habits like -- smoking, drinking alcohol, eating the wrong foods, over eating and stress.
The word Yoga is derived from the Sanskrit root yuj. It means binding, joining, and attaching. It also means union or communion. It is the true union of our will with the will of God.
'It thus means,' says Mahadev Desai in his introduction to the Gita according to Gandhi, 'the yoking of all the powers of body, mind and soul to God; it means the disciplining of the intellect, the mind, the emotions, the will, which that Yoga presupposes; it means a poise of the soul which enables one to look at life in all its aspects evenly.'
Yoga aims at putting us back into natural living. Yoga follows certain path to attain this.
First of this is Asanas -- physical postures. Asanas give mild pressures to certain body parts, squeezes out the toxins and provides fresh blood circulation to those areas.
The second is to educate people about how to breathe better. This is Pranayama. It is proved experimentally that we normally take only about 500 mls ( mls--millilitres ) instead of 3700 mls which our normal lung capacity. With proper practice of pranayama we can increase our lung capacity slowly.
Pranayama allows the entire body to get oxygenated and burns out toxins from cells. By breathing alone, we can prevent and cure many ailments.
The best way of course is not to put any toxins in our system. Our food should contain clean nutrition, free from any toxins & easily digestible.
The same holds good for mind. The mind is constantly fed upon our thoughts. Thought is the food for the mind. Thoughts affect both mind and body. Our thoughts also need to be nutritious. Positive & constructive.
Meditation is recommended in Yoga. First you need to know your present thoughts. Then you need to fill the mind with proper thoughts & lead a dedicated, selfless life.
Do everything for the joy of doing it. That is yoga. This is the yoga way to clean the body and mind so you can truly enjoy the life. You are relaxed and in good health always.
Relaxation
Every time we may not experience any physical disorder. But we may be engaging in emotional states(anxiety, worry, etc.) which may have short- and long-term negative health effects.
Yoga recommends remaining consciously still each day for a set period of time. It is the best way to become more relaxed and develop and improve our concentration and energy.
Relaxation Technique
1. Lay against a wall.
2. Have the legs open 18 to 24 inches. Rest hands on the thighs, palms facing the ceiling with the fingers slightly curled.Relax.
3. Listen passively to sounds in the distance and Lay in the posture for 10 to 15 minutes.
Yoga philosophy aims at the prevention of the loss of our ease and peace. Most of the modern problems are due to wrong habits like -- smoking, drinking alcohol, eating the wrong foods, over eating and stress.
The word Yoga is derived from the Sanskrit root yuj. It means binding, joining, and attaching. It also means union or communion. It is the true union of our will with the will of God.
'It thus means,' says Mahadev Desai in his introduction to the Gita according to Gandhi, 'the yoking of all the powers of body, mind and soul to God; it means the disciplining of the intellect, the mind, the emotions, the will, which that Yoga presupposes; it means a poise of the soul which enables one to look at life in all its aspects evenly.'
Yoga aims at putting us back into natural living. Yoga follows certain path to attain this.
First of this is Asanas -- physical postures. Asanas give mild pressures to certain body parts, squeezes out the toxins and provides fresh blood circulation to those areas.
The second is to educate people about how to breathe better. This is Pranayama. It is proved experimentally that we normally take only about 500 mls ( mls--millilitres ) instead of 3700 mls which our normal lung capacity. With proper practice of pranayama we can increase our lung capacity slowly.
Pranayama allows the entire body to get oxygenated and burns out toxins from cells. By breathing alone, we can prevent and cure many ailments.
The best way of course is not to put any toxins in our system. Our food should contain clean nutrition, free from any toxins & easily digestible.
The same holds good for mind. The mind is constantly fed upon our thoughts. Thought is the food for the mind. Thoughts affect both mind and body. Our thoughts also need to be nutritious. Positive & constructive.
Meditation is recommended in Yoga. First you need to know your present thoughts. Then you need to fill the mind with proper thoughts & lead a dedicated, selfless life.
Do everything for the joy of doing it. That is yoga. This is the yoga way to clean the body and mind so you can truly enjoy the life. You are relaxed and in good health always.
Relaxation
Every time we may not experience any physical disorder. But we may be engaging in emotional states(anxiety, worry, etc.) which may have short- and long-term negative health effects.
Yoga recommends remaining consciously still each day for a set period of time. It is the best way to become more relaxed and develop and improve our concentration and energy.
Relaxation Technique
1. Lay against a wall.
2. Have the legs open 18 to 24 inches. Rest hands on the thighs, palms facing the ceiling with the fingers slightly curled.Relax.
3. Listen passively to sounds in the distance and Lay in the posture for 10 to 15 minutes.
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